So proud people actually prefer to suffer physically than to ask for help . Why? Because people are proud and demanding aid considered unthinkable . ” How can it help ? I can handle alone . ” It is an offense to propose their help because they feel that you do not give them importance and power at the time. And when they say they can handle without help increase their self inside adoration toward them , they are proud that they did not need help and are independent in all! That means a foolish pride , unnecessary suffering for one who offers his help has absolutely nothing to lose! The next story is about a woman who managed to give a lesson to arrogant women, who disregarded without anyone asking them anything.