When we are young , we need parents’ help on all levels. But as we grow up , we want to support us peel them and learn to fend for themselves . All want to be independent from both emotionally and financially . Maybe it’s the biggest step in becoming independent . It’s important that you do not care what others think simply . Stop worrying about them or what they say about you. Decisions are your own , not someone else’s . If you continue to think about what others would say if you will lose precious time when you might as well start right now dedicate yourself of what you want to do , no matter what others say.