We all suffer when we are not treated with kindness. This can happen when we are dealing with mischievous neighbors , strangers unkind or even with friends or family members who sometimes act recklessly . Often when we are forced to be around people rude , shouting and insults proffers , we could demoralize . It could happen that we also become hostile , being tempted to respond in kind . All these can affect our physical or spiritual health . Some might easily draw the conclusion that showing kindness is not the most important thing . In their view, might even be a sign of weakness. They could feel exploited , especially when others would trample the dignity