How parents label their children has a major influence on their development and their adult life , psychologists believe . Willingly or unwillingly , most often , parents contribute significantly to the success or failure of their children , since the first years of life, just by the way they talk and label them . Abusing her emotionally intense and living what we say to the child , we only refresh activity of neural networks that works for failure. It is very important to understand that where we orient our attention go there energy and the issue will increase our child .
