There is no more beautiful than the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren , as long as it is balanced . A healthy relationship with grandparents can be one of the most important sources of childhood memories . Often the situation becomes delicate when grandparents take their role very seriously , especially when left to do , parents grandparents giving too much freedom . The more beautiful and beneficial solution for the child if parents and grandparents conflict is negotiation . Negotiating various aspects of growth and child care , in which both sides fail to reach a compromise , you avoid unnecessary tense situations and will keep a relaxed relationship with parents.