Have you ever been judged and criticized by those around you ? If so , remember how you felt then? You felt disappointed , discouraged or devalued as you have some sort of black sheep of society ? Fear of being judged by others holding you back , does not let you develop , evolve and live the life you desire . When you have this fear often do you find yourself compromises and choices that do not represent and are not in your benefit , in this way your making yourself a great disservice . Fear of being judged sabotage your actions making you a passive person who prefers not to say and do nothing lest be judged and criticized . The best solution is not to take into consideration all these things that adversely affect life and develop your own style after .