Wives continue to settle accounts so-called ” children’s sake .” And the pain varies from two houses, two different worlds, to blaming the parents’ divorce . The most important is to know the child , telling him clear as can be that he has nothing to do with divorce and that the split does not change the parents’ feelings towards him . Fair and healthy is to not mix the roles . A child must be confident and any partner of any of the parents, even when they are together, even when divorced . For this type of relationship exists friends . No matter how mature a child is , the roles of mother -child , father- child should be kept unspoiled and unpolluted other social roles .